Well, this sucks

[sweetprince]

So, I did a friends cut. It's kind of in the wake of the real life trouble that I've been having, and how my flist basically wasn't safe anymore. Somebody tried to contact my family about the stuff that's been going down with my brother and that's really not cool.

I also defriended some people I just don't talk to anymore, so don't worry, if that's you, I'm not stating that you're a security risk.

Comments

[xtinethepirate.livejournal.com]

Wow. That is... REALLY? Someone tried to contact your FAMILY? I... wow. I don't even know what to say to that. I would hope that the person was, at the least, acting out of good intentions but still. Talk about being uncomfortably intrusive.

Am going to try to get cracking on SW art tho tonight. Any particular character you're going for, or do you want a surprise? :)

[dark-reaction.livejournal.com]

They set up a facebook dummy account and messaged my brother about how they'd heard he was doing badly via me. It was all VERY creepy. And I don't know what it means, because it already happened, so I don't know what my next step should be or how I can prevent this in the future.

If you're still doing SW art, I always SAYYYYYY Quinlan Vos, or Anakin. Ahem.

[xtinethepirate.livejournal.com]

Wow. That goes to whole new levels of stalkertude, and I def see why you did a friends cut in that respect. As to how to prevent it... that's tough. A tighter custom friends filter on personal posts? It sucks to even have to consider that.

I started the SW artiness last night before I got this, I'm afraid. :( So... it involves Anakin? But not Quinlan. Will that suit?

(also, I can't find my fave pic of Quinlan via google anymore. The large size of the one that's in my icon? Booo to that.)

[cormallen.livejournal.com]

Someone tried to contact your family? Awkward and intrusive, YIKES.

[dark-reaction.livejournal.com]

Yeah, it was all very weird. It sort of seems like they meant well? But they set up a dummy account, so I'm not sure how well.

[wpadmirer.livejournal.com]

Unless invited, no one should be getting involved in your personal life, or the life of your family.

EGADS.

WP

[dea-liberty.livejournal.com]

Someone tried to...what? I cannot even understand that. I'm so sorry, honey.

[dark-reaction.livejournal.com]

No worries. My brother's all right. That's the important thing.

[dea-liberty.livejournal.com]

That really, really is.

[one-2-3-4.livejournal.com]

I am so sorry, what an...invasion. :-/

[dark-reaction.livejournal.com]

It was a little weird.

[walkawayslowly.livejournal.com]

How totally and awkwardly creepy. :(

[dark-reaction.livejournal.com]

*nod nod* But we're dealing with it.

[clayworshippers.livejournal.com]

That's...not cool. I'm sorry.

[dark-reaction.livejournal.com]

Yeah, it's okay. Hopefully nothing like that happens again, I'm still sort of shocked. I want to say, I'm not cool enough for people to do something like this?

[gestaltrose.livejournal.com]

*hugs honey* you do what you need to do to feel safe. I love you.

[aislinn-tredor.livejournal.com]

WTF? I will never, NEVER understand people who try to contact a person's family over posts.